“I have mornings where I turn on the light, take one look at myself, and desperately want to turn it off.” In her memoir ‘The light in us’, Michelle Obama (58) shows herself from a completely different side. Her experiences with menopause, the many struggles that come with a life as a first lady and her great love Barack: the former first lady of the US does not shy away from any subject. “We went to couples therapy because we were starting to grow apart.”