Wierd Duk finds it rude when women put an end to a relationship with him. He is of course also referring to his ex-lover Fidan Ekiz. “Incomprehensible, of course.”
Opinion makers Fidan Ekiz and Wierd Duk have had an on-again, off-again relationship with each other for years. They got back together at the beginning of last year, four and a half years after their divorce, but saw their relationship fail again last winter. At one point, the two even started bickering constantly on television, namely in the talk show HLF8.
‘Incomprehensible!’
It seems that Wierd in particular is always doing everything he can to get together again. Last spring he told me, wagging his tail, on the radio that Fidan is back on track. And when it was over she made it very clear that she was not exactly devastated. It seems obvious who put an end to it: Fidan.
And Wierd has difficulty dealing with that, he says in a relationship column The Telegraph. “Then there were the break-ups by my partners, who had had enough. Incomprehensible of course – in my view. No human being can tolerate being abandoned, let alone by someone you love.”
Without rancor
Fidan and Wierd have a son together. “I have to prepare my son for this to happen at some point in his life and tell him that you only accept a break-up without resentment when you are really, really old,” he writes.
He continues: “Then you know all your flaws and insufferables and it becomes increasingly logical that partners have better things to do than spend time with you. Well, of course I won’t tell him that last part yet. He first has to go through all those stages and through different relationships. And who knows, it might not happen to him.”