“Lor I do every day, in every sense». He begins with irony Valentina Tomirotti in his speech a Sexabilitythe video podcast series, on Youtube and Spotify, in which the urologist and science communicator Nicholas Macchione (author of Simple Sex) talks about sexuality and the disabled. The interviewees have a disability and listening is useful, curious and fun for everyone.
Sexabilitythe podcast on sexuality and the disabled
Among the other protagonists, in addition to Valentina, Ivan Cottini, a former competitor of Amici di Maria De Filippi who discovered he was suffering from multiple sclerosis. Danilo Ragona, who founded the non-profit association “B-Free”. Richard Aldighieriinfluencers with disabilities. Simon Reflected, content creator and athlete. Maximiliano Ulivieri, project manager Love Giverwho wants to establish the figure of the sexual assistant in Italy and co-author of the book LoveAbility.
Through a simple and light language, the format approaches the theme without prejudice, addressing those who experience a disability but with many interesting ideas for everyone.
“The goal is pleasure and sharing,” continues Tomirotti, a journalist and activist known online as Pepitosa. “I like not having cages and I also try to spread consensual freedom to the people who are next to me, to be oneself”.
A naked “non-compliant” body: the meaning of Valentina Tomirotti’s sexy photos
Hers, and she herself defines it thus, bluntly, is a “non-compliant body”. A non-compliant body which corresponds to a right to pleasure despite it all. «For the company I have always been that“ in spite of everything ”,» she says. “For this reason, a few years ago, I decided to make everyone understand that behind the thousand infinite small imperfections there is a person with a sexuality”. Valentina thus literally stripped nakedin front of Micaela Zuliani’s lens (Portrait de Femme). «Riding the cliche of the woman object, I came out of my own comfort zones, I put my face on it. And much more as well.” In sexy lingeriegave birth to the project Boudoir Disability.
What can a woman with a disability teach all the others about sex
Since then, a lot has changed, but not enough. “Since I was born, I have lived on looks, on people who look at me”. Curiosity, prejudice, ignorance. Especially in a town like Mantua, where Valentina is “nsitting in 1982″ e lives, looks are often a burden to carry on one’s shoulders. But she, sure of herself, goes on. «It will seem incredible but I also do the sexuality guide for my girlfriends». Who better than her can disclose the freedom to be yourself? “I invite you to put shame in the closet, and bring out the freedom to feel emotions».
Sexuality and the disabled, sex toys are (also) medical devices
Also, why not, through a sex toy: «A clitoral sucker he may be the best non-human being that can be invented,” he assures. In the great world of sex toys those designed for people with disabilities are medical devices. They help those with less sensitive portions of the body, perhaps with very powerful vibrations and not within the reach of a human being. Arriving, for example, to lead to ejaculation even those with problems at the level of the peripheral nervous system.
Valentina started talking about sex toys years ago and only recently have companies moved. «There is no longer a single target, greater openness is needed: in form, material and objective». And the goal is pleasure, even in sharing.
Breaking down stereotypes for inclusive pleasure
«Sex toys also help in the relationship: abbreak down barriers, to turn off a thought too seasoned with stereotypes», continues the activist.
The new podcast, online since April 20, consists of seven different interviews in which the people involved talk about their sexuality by sharing their intimacy, the way they live it and overcome obstacles with unimaginable cues in a grand display of freedom.
The project, promoted by Wellspect (leading company in the sector of innovative solutions for continence), can be seen on the youtube channel of @wellspectitalia and listen on Spotify.
The series is completed by 3 specials dedicated to Sex toys, to the Rocking chair of sex (with Danilo Ragona, Luca Paiardi, Valentina Tomirotti, Simone Riflesso) and to the Figure of the sexual assistant, with Anna Vittoria Pierobon, OEAS Emotional, affective and sexuality operator.
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