Sergey Hilman has only been in love once in his life. However, with publicity, he has noticed that finding a partner is not so easy.
Some influencer Sergey Hilman, 30, digs a white crystal in his pocket.
“Now that it has been a little harder, I went to buy a protective crystal for myself,” Sergey says and rotates the crystal in his hand.
The first year of the social influencer got a tremendous turn when he was violently robbed in Santo Domingo in the Dominican Republic. According to Sergey, dealing with a traumatic experience is still ongoing.
During his long reflections, for the first time, he woke up to wonder how different life could be in a relationship.
– If I had someone who would have brought a sense of security after the incident. Now I was the only resource myself, he continues.
– I wouldn’t want to share just bad moments, but there are a lot of wonderful things in my life.
Sergey Hilman is a familiar face from reality TV shows. Petri Anikari
As Sergey’s life is followed by social media, a picture of a young man who enjoys glamorous urban life comes to mind. First, attention is paid to co -pictures with other celebrities and great travel photos around the world.
Sergey admits to being a social person and, because of his work alone, he may meet several people a day.
In the evening, however, he is powered by a feeling of loneliness.
– When I’m going to bed, that silence could be cut with a knife, he describes.
Experiences of loneliness have made Sergey realize that he is ready for a permanent relationship and even a father. Previously, he felt that he was not mature enough as a person. The last relationship ended the other Christmas.
– I haven’t had time for love. I have worked so much that other things have been completely overlooked.
Publicity
Sergey has become a familiar face in a variety of reality TV series in a short time. Someone might think that publicity would make people send him dating requests.
The idea makes Sergey laugh.
– In Finland, I rarely get dating requests. Many people have a picture that they have received based on the media. People also think that I would tell you right away who I dating because I’m so open.
Sometimes dating partners ask that Sergey does not tell anyone about their meeting.
According to Sergey, there is hardly any dating request in Finland. Petri Anikari
Sometimes the situation even annoys.
– Who would I even tell? I don’t have to be the secret of anyone.
– At some point I already gave up. I thought I couldn’t find anyone and that’s okay.
For money?
Although Sergey prefers to meet people face to face, he has also used different dating applications. One weekend, the socialist submitted an application to the Raya application, described as “celebrity tinder” because the user base consists of well-known and wealthy people.
Most of the applications are not accepted, but the exception was made for Sergey.
However, the end result was a disappointment.
– There were three gays in Helsinki that used the app. It was rather networking because it was asked about my profession, for example.
So Sergey wants to knock out the prejudice he says he collides from time to time.
– Many people think I’m looking for Sugar Daddy. I have a good thing economically and I do not look for any kindergarten.
Sergey is not looking for a supporter, he gets along on his own. Petri Anikari
The wealth of a dating partner has sometimes caused confidence problems.
– I’ve had two long relationships. My partners were really wealthy. For the first year, I had to prove that I was not in a relationship because of the money. It was really frustrating.
One and one
– I’ve been genuinely in love once. We first met at a fast food restaurant and it started with a stormy relationship with a lot of love.
The last dispute has remained regretted.
– I have not always been mature in disputes. At the end of the dispute, I packed my bag and left. It was too much for my ex-love and he no longer agreed to talk to me.
Sergey admits to dreaming of a “traditional” relationship. He does not see himself in an open relationship where both could meet other people.
– I am a little uncertain by nature. In an open relationship, I would be afraid that I would be left.
Sergey admits to being uncertain in a relationship. Petri Anikari
According to the socialist, it is a good idea to go through the rules of the game right away.
– I will tell you what I want from a relationship right from the start. If it doesn’t fit my dating partner, we don’t have to spend each other’s time.
In the summer, the social influencer intends to visit different festivals around Finland. Sergey does not exclude the possibility of the love of his life to be found in the middle of the festival atmosphere.
– I hope summer is a time of love. It would be wonderful to meet my future spouse face to face.