Rosanna Kulju, who was eliminated from the Survivors Suomi program in second place, says that she sometimes feels a really strong sense of failure both in terms of life and love.
Rosanna Kulju, known from the Surviving Suomi program and the Pimppiheimo podcast, says that during the past year she has felt failure in her love life, among other things. INKA SOVERI
Media personality Rosanna Kulju, 31, has a lot to say about the past year. Kulju says in his Instagram stories that during the year he has experienced a great sense of failure in both life and love affairs. He says that he got divorced twice during the year.
Kuljun resigned both in May 2022 and a little before this year Survivors Finland – the beginning of the filming of the program. He has said publicly that both separations were amicable without drama.
Now the media person says on his social media account that Survivors Finland dropping out of the program upset him, among other things, because he had felt that he had already failed in his personal affairs.
– I broke up just before leaving. Even though it was mutual, I still had it in the back of my mind. I felt like everything I touch is crumbling. Now in hindsight, I know that things were supposed to go this way, he says right after in his Instagram stories.
– Sometimes I feel loneliness and inadequacy, but those are just feelings that, fortunately, usually pass as quickly as they come. That’s normal—I’m not the only 32-year-old single woman who, when she was younger, thought her life was completely different at this point. It gives me comfort and the feeling that I’m not alone, he reveals in later sections of his story.
– Everything happens when it’s time. Now I live completely for myself, I set my own limits and reflect on my values. In addition, I live this chaos of life in all its colors, he adds.
Rosanna Kulju is not going to be discouraged, even if she sometimes feels a really strong sense of failure. INKA SOVERI
Kulju says that he has learned that he cannot base his happiness on someone else. In addition, he reveals at which point he thinks he would be ready for a new relationship.
– I only start a relationship when it and the person bring something more to my life. I don’t want to force anything and I’m not desperate for anything. I am my own security and I am really proud that I have succeeded in this, he emphasizes.
Kulju reflected that he has failed in things precisely because he has dared to live with an open heart, to be hopeful, to love, to throw himself into things and to try things.
– I have promised myself that I will not be cynical in front of love and I will try to hold on to it. I can’t, and I don’t want to open more, because not all things are mine to share alone, he writes.
– I respect the people who have been or still are in my life very much and I wish them only the best from the bottom of my heart. This is just life and clichédly things were meant to go exactly like this, he adds.
Kulju says that he hopes with his story to show others that life is not as perfect as it might appear to outsiders via social media. In addition, he wants to convey to his social media followers that they are not alone with the feeling of inadequacy or failure.