But what is a narcissist?
She is a person who is constantly considering how valuable she is, which leads her to compete even with her partners and children. They compare themselves, unhealthy envy appears, and the person full of anger, irritable, unstable, insecure, aggressive and violent emerges.
The inferiority complex is brutal.
If, in addition to this, they know how to manipulate, we will have “psychopathic” people with two faces: Perfect on the outside and hell on the inside. When they explode they are extremely hurtful and dangerous.
They are everywhere, but where they will show their true colors the most is with their partners.
- They don’t fall in love, they are fascinated with those who can help them look good in front of others, or with those who put up with everything and make them feel loved and essential.
- They compete with their partners since not being able to fall in love or love anyone, share successes/growths, etc., with their life partner, bothers them because it reminds them of everything they cannot or do not do.
- Over time they start to mistreat their partners because if they grow/shine, they feel like they have to beat them and it’s exhausting (hence, it’s easier to try to destroy them).
- By destroying them, it is no longer a pride but a shame to be with them, so they begin to ignore them and look for third parties.
- They usually end in rude, unexpected, cruel breakups… Or also in triangulations (making their partner feel that they are with other people to hurt them and feel relevant and powerful).
What do you have to know to start dating?
1. It’s not that I don’t love you. She doesn’t know how to love anyone, not even herself.
2. You don’t bother him; They are not capable of sharing life with anyone.
3. If he mistreats you, it’s because he thinks you’re better, and he doesn’t tolerate it.
4. If he ignores you it is because he is destroying you and you cannot let that happen.
5. If she ends the relationship abruptly, it is because she feels that you are opening your eyes and she cannot be seen that way.
6. If you triangulate it is because you need to deceive another person.
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Dr. Pía M. Roldán Viesti
Lawyer T°92 F°959 CPACF (UBA)
Psychologist MN. 57,457 (UCES)
Specialist in Gender Violence Prevention (Miguel de Cervantes European University)
President and Founder of EUTI
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