Is it expected to expect everything from the other?
When you begin to know someone, the illusion causes novels to be written in your mind, in which over and over again that person is the main character: Prince Charming of dreams.
This idealization leads to expecting and wanting everything from that other.
But, that illusion fissures and cracks.
An illusion that is broken, a blue prince that fades, an ideal that falls and falls within the possible: human, too human (in the words of Friedrich Nietzsche).
A challenge begins
Differences and misunderstandings appear, necessary components in the daily construction of a bond.
Getting to know each other and talking on a daily basis is a process of mutual exchange and growth.
Are you prepared to pay the cost of building a bond?
In many relationships, its members are not willing to give up that wonderful period of colorful illusion, fleeting and passionate encounters.
It is to emphasize that each relationship leaves a mark in the history of each person.
Some small ones are lost in memory, while others have the intensity of an “eternal return of memory”.
Life is made of encounters and farewells, sufferings and hopes that are torn between felt emotions.
An invitation to reflect and wonder:
What traces have marked the history that each one has had to live?
Text: Mr. Germán Rothstein.
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