Actress Selahattin Paşalı sat on the wedding table with Lara Tümer last April. Pera, the daughter of the duo, who held a ceremony in Bodrum attended by family and friends, was born on 1 July.
Lara Paşalı talked about the stressful days she experienced after the birth of her daughter Pera in her Instagram post. At first, Paşalı, who had problems with breastfeeding, warned his followers.
“My MOST DIFFICULT WAS NOT LEARNING BREASTFEEDING FROM THE FIRST DAY”
“You’re only nine days old here. How hard it is to breastfeed/learn how to breastfeed. I was devastated from crying because ‘I can’t feed him’. I was on the way to getting mastitis while I was eating myself saying ‘I can’t,’ but a midwife Ayşe came to my rescue. After hours of massages, I was alone with myself and a zen environment. I created and made affirmations. I said ‘I can and will do’ and in a calm mood I tried and succeeded. I just needed to sleep and collect myself. I mean every ‘new mother’ has different difficulties. My hardest was not learning to breastfeed from day one. What seems simple to you But it was something that made life easier for me. But the most important thing I learned in this process is that you will be fine first, and then you will take care of your baby. What was the most difficult for you?”