“In search of love”
The history of humanity presents various romantic stories, with various styles, from tragedies to comedies. The search for love is as intense as the difficulty of finding and sustaining it. The need for “someone to love” goes deep into subjectivity, going through different generations.
“A bath of language”
When being born and coming into the world, the human being is bathed by language and culture. Taking Lacan as a reference, language creates the subject, who in turn breaks into language, being a reciprocal link.
As it grows, each person speaks to himself, and is spoken by others. And love does not escape this logic.
“Talking to love”
The story of love is built and fed back, being one of the bases to sustain a bond. Thus, there is an own and intimate language of the couple, and then multiple discourses that are generated in conversations with friends, family, and even in therapeutic spaces.
When problems appear, the dreaded expression is often heard: “we have to talk”, being one more indicator of the importance of “speaking love”, in order to renew it and give it life.
“Lies?”
“Lying is wrong”, but it is an almost inalienable part of some unhealthy relationships. “I know that he lies to me, and she knows that I lie to her, but despite that we cannot stop being together.” Sometimes, you seek to feel emotions without measuring the costs, entering repetitions from which it is very difficult to escape and contaminate.
“All is fair in love”
Poetic phrase that presents a complicated panorama, because if “anything goes, nothing matters.” Every choice has its consequences, and affective responsibility is not only with the partner, but also with oneself. The only way to be able to take care of someone is knowing how to protect one’s own internal world, giving rise to growth, and thus building a healthy bond.
Text: Lic. German Rothstein.
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