First date at the altar -Otto withdraws: no feelings have arisen

First date at the altar – Ass’s and Oto’s feelings have not developed at the same pace.

Ass and Intake have gone to spend Midsummer alone at the spa.

However, something seems to be weighing on Oto’s mind, which Assi has also noticed. At dinner, the atmosphere between the couple is tense.

– The previous week and the following week are a measure of where we are going, Otto says.

– Will there be feelings that I personally at least expect should come in a relationship in order to be able to continue.

It later turns out that the feelings between the couple have developed at different rates.

– One has budding feelings and the other doesn’t. I have to admit that maybe it’s me who has difficulties on the emotional side. The feelings that I would have expected have perhaps not arisen, Otto admits.

– It’s a shame that I haven’t gotten up to speed myself. Assi might have sensed it from my behavior.

The couple also gets to talk with an expert I met Alanen with.

– I feel that something is missing between us. It prevents rapprochement physically. Touch is such a personal and intimate thing for me that I feel connected to a person through touch. For that to happen, there needs to be some attraction and something that I sense, Otto describes.

Assi and Otto meet expert Tapani Alanen. Jukka Alasaari

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