Bibi Breijman kicked Waylon out of the house for 24 hours, but now she thinks very differently about cheating. According to her, that’s just part of life. “Strange that taboo.”
Bibi Breijman suddenly deals soberly with her husband Waylon’s cheating… Although she initially threw him out of the house and spent hours on the phone with her then girlfriend Yvonne Coldeweijer to discuss everything. ins and outs To find out, she’s now something of an anti-cheating advocate. According to her, that is something very normal.
Big taboo
Bibi says in the Grazia that she doesn’t understand the taboo against cheating. “Yes, that was really a taboo. People thought I should leave him, because that is what our ego is taught: you should not stay with someone if that person has cheated on you.”
She continues: “While I actually find it very hypocritical to judge someone for a mistake that I may have made in the past. And sure, my first reaction was also: I have to run away from this. But I soon felt: I don’t feel like building a pattern.”
Suspicious
Bibi explains what she means. “Because if I run away from this, I won’t process it and I might always be suspicious of a new man in my life. Then I’d rather fight it out with the man I love and with whom I have my family. I was also realistic: cheating happens everywhere, so why are we all so afraid of it?”
According to her, cheating is something everyday. “It’s better to discuss why it happens. Our choice to fight for it together created a lot of hate. Ultimately, my fight against the judgmental society was more intense than the fight within my relationship. And that actually brought us closer together.”
Self-respect
There has been too much criticism of her decision to forgive Waylon, Bibi believes. “That’s right, I was accused of having no self-respect, everyone had their own opinion. Even my doctor gave me well-intentioned advice. I was there for oxazepam, because I had to calm down and my breasts had to start leaking again so I could feed my child.”
She concludes: “And he said, ‘Well, there’s no way my wife would have done that.’ Maybe he just wanted to say, ‘How clever of you,’ but at that moment I just thought: keep your opinions to yourself.”
Brainwashed
What does Juice Channel, which first exposed Waylon’s cheating, think of these statements? “Are you kidding me? Can anyone really stop this girl in the future if she starts making such stupid statements again?”
The juice channel continues: “She has been completely brainwashed. We are seriously not surprised if he is allowed to do his thing during her pregnancy, while she is at home very ill.”