In the course of my personal and professional life I have repeatedly heard expressions such as “I have a personal desire that I wanted to achieve a few years ago and postponed for different reasons”, “the problems and conflicts of my company stun me”, “the ties “Personal issues stagnate.”
Wishes. Longings. Desire. And what do they do with that?
Nothing! He only complains, staying there, regretting, resenting, resigning, filling himself with excuses and limitations, always external, of course, blaming the “adverse conditions” for his “not taking charge” of actions, knowing that his existence and his current reality require and urges you to do so.
The list of situations in which the focus is usually placed outside is extensive. My work team does not recognize me as a leader. My organization is not growing. I can’t resolve conflicts. I emigrated and I am devastated. I’m going through a divorce. Job dissatisfaction. I don’t like my career. I don’t know how to lead spaces. I moved up in an organization and I don’t know what to do. I communicate very poorly. I get overwhelmed emotionally. Anger paralyzes me. My emotional ties don’t last. My partners leave me. I can’t bond with my children. I don’t know how to ask for, agree on actions, among others and as many worlds and people exist.
WHAT I NEED?
Explore myself, feel myself, observe myself, break me, detect what happens to me to get out, and from my “NO”, “ENOUGH”, “I DON’T WANT THIS”, choose to design myself to empower myself and expand in such a chaotic, fragile and disruptive world and from there, decide what I commit to myself. Commitment that will impact my environment, my doing and my obtaining, as a systemic and circular view.
This is what Professional Ontological Coaching is for. To learn. Learning that, starting from a desire, from a desire to do or stop doing, to preserve what I am losing, to live in a reality that does not satisfy my dreams, from “I want and I can’t”, “I want and I don’t see options” , “I want and I don’t know how”, “that’s it” I can transform my linear view of what happens to me. Learn to LOOK at other options that offer the possibility of transforming myself, with the resources that I have and that I cannot demonstrate in my current context.
So you ask me, what is PROFESSIONAL ONTOLOGICAL COACHING?
It is a profession that assists you in the aforementioned. That requires a lot of learning, work, experience, certification from those who practice it, like me. That it has a method, that it is deeply ethical, that it entails a constant personal transformation in coaches, to achieve our own creative and innovative evolution, regardless of whether we come from some other profession, as in my case (lawyer, negotiator, teacher, mediator) or if we embrace it from the beginning of our working life. It is a profession that, in my opinion, allows us to build bonds of peace, sow personal and social, cultural, business transformation, work against violence and discrimination, based on diversity, respect and human dignity.
In short, it helps to build individual peace, with another and with the context that surrounds us.
WHY DO I NEED A COACH THEN?
So that from that “ENOUGH, I DON’T WANT THIS ANYMORE, I DON’T FEEL GOOD LIKE THIS”, discover all the potential I have. What’s stopping me? Let’s explore it through a process of conversations to validate your existence and your being, to find yourself, from a loving, respectful, vulnerable and warm perspective. To evolve.
There are many specialties in this profession and they are becoming more and more. Business, executive, emotional, life, educational, legal, sports, among others. For me and only me, ontological coaching is what allows me to go through a journey from my today to my future, designing it, without advising, without judging, without giving an opinion, only accompanying, assisting, listening and asking, almost invisible to “let appear.” ” to the person who initiates the process, the coachee.
HOW IS IT DONE?
Starting this transformative, challenging, committed process, seeing other landscapes of your life and your context, recognizing, validating, learning from mistakes and limiting beliefs, through confidential CONVERSATIONS, to discover from the body, emotions and language, what you want choose, who you choose to be and what commitment you make to change.
Pure personal process that clears blindness and makes you see other paths of possibilities!
AND WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO DO THIS?
That will be your exploration, your sense of existence, your discovery. Perhaps to achieve personal and relational well-being, to feel more fulfilled, perhaps to accept the past and build from today, to empower yourself, to focus on what you propose in your personal, social, and work life.
Each person will have their motivations and that will be your search towards that inner space of self-knowledge. Perhaps to find the meaning of your life and transcend to live and coexist.
If you need professional assistance, I invite you to start an ontological coaching process.
Contact information:
Cell: +549 221 5553814
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