Un toxic love ended, a life to take back in hand and an important choice: freeze the eggs to be able to choose to become a mother again, at the right time. Bianca Balti, 37 years old, she talks about it with an open heart and is aimed at all women. In her newsletter and in some Instagram posts she tells about her experience without filters.
Bianca Balti and the choice of social freezing
Is called social freezing the therapy chosen by the model. This is the preventive conservation of oocytes, frozen in childbearing age to allow the woman to choose if and when to become a mother. Bianca Balti she underwent social freezing last year, at 36. He performed the procedure in America, spending “tens of thousands of dollars”. On Instagramwith the support of a doctor expert in cryopreservation, she tells the whole procedure: how it is carried out, what it is for, how to deal with post therapy.
The choice after a toxic love
The decision to undergo social freezing came after another demanding choice, that of saying goodbye to “a toxic love”. “Releasing my dream of motherhood from the moods of a relationship it was the bravest thing I ever had the courage to do for myself. Because if a woman doesn’t need a man to have a child, then she doesn’t need him for anything elseHe wrote in his newsletter. Her very hard words, the result of a relationship that has worn her out.
Mother of two girls
The model is already the mother of two girls: Matilde, 14, born from her marriage to Christian Lucidi, and Mia, 6, born from love with Matthew McRae. But the desire for motherhood is still alive in her. Unfortunately, however, she has not found the right person. Her latest boyfriend shared with her the desire to expand the family but in the wrong way, alternating phrases such as “You are the best mother” to “If you make a child with you like that, I don’t.” A sick relationship, for which the model cried and despaired “banging her head against the wall”. Until the day he said enough. She has ended the relationship but has not abandoned the desire for motherhood. “I decided not to limit the possibility of becoming a mother again in the presence of that man and of a relationship in general“.
Reproductive independence
Hence the decision to freeze five oocytes in advance. “The independence I needed was reproductive independence. So a year ago I opted to freeze the eggs. It was tough and not just physically, “explains the model. Aware that many difficulties of the treatment were due to the absence of a partner with whom to face this path. Which now she wants to share with all women. In the name of the freedom to become a mother.
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