In the one-two he had already said that he was quite busy in terms of work, but that his workload was just about suitable for family life. The Rolfes family has built a life for themselves in Leverkusen. His wife and daughters have a life that fills them when Simon is away.
They wouldn’t have that in Liverpool if they followed suit. And if Simon moves to the island alone, it could be the beginning of the end for family life.
You have to differentiate who the person being trafficked is.
A family man who has a functioning family and is therefore given a higher workload, or a guy who is unsuitable for relationships and is therefore rootless anyway and can therefore follow such a call.
Not every family does something like that. And rightly so…