Elisa and Mati’s relationship has ended. BEWARE OF PLOT REVEALS!
Elisa talks to Joonas Pesonen about self-development. MTV
First date at the altar – program, the relationships of two couples have already ended. Previously Julia and Arttu ended their relationship and now too Elisa and Checkmate have decided that the relationship will not continue after the program.
The tenth episode can be watched from October 23 on the Katsomo+ service, and it will be shown on television on November 6.
In the episode, Elisa discusses the relationship and its problems not only with Mati, but also with her friends and an expert Joonas Pesonen with. Elisa tells Joonas that she lost herself after realizing that she can’t build a relationship or marriage with Mati.
Pesonen asks Elisa how the two-month program process could be used to advantage.
– You could study yourself and the other person. What other things would you like to learn from yourself during this process? Expert Pesonen asks.
Elisa and Matti openly discuss the fact that their relationship has ended. MTV
Elisa is not left speechless in the situation.
– In my opinion, it’s somehow absurd that in this process it is always required that you have to learn something by yourself, alone. I have been single for six years, processed things terribly and did a lot of self-reflection, Elisa begins.
– How could I come up with something wildly great about myself in a few weeks alone, when I specifically came here looking for a spouse who would mirror those things? Elisa asks an expert.
One of Elisa and Mati’s problems is related to closeness and touch. Elisa needs closeness to form an emotional connection, while Matti first needs an emotional connection and only then a touch. Expert Pesonen asks again what Elisa could change in herself in relation to this situation.
– I don’t know, I’m so stupid that I don’t know. If I’m told don’t put out your flame that’s inside you. Yes, it gets suffocated if you can’t touch and get touched, Elisa sums up.
First date at the altar program on Thursdays at 9 pm on MTV3 channel and MTV Katsomo. See all program information and broadcast times on Telku.