A homemade, edible gift is a kind of declaration of love

Question: what are the best gifts? Now if you say homemade gifts, I count that as a good idea. If you say: gifts you can eat, we are completely on the same page. But do you know what the best gifts are? Homemade gifts that you can eat (or drink).

When I recently hosted a book party, several friends and colleagues brought such gifts. Pastry chef Cees Holtkamp gave me a bottle of eggnog. “I use Amsterdam jenever these days,” he whispered in my ear. The eggnog was so tasty that the bottle was empty within a week; Every evening after dinner, my cutest glasses and my bone spoons, specially reserved for soft-boiled eggs and these types of delicacies, arrived on the table. It felt like a secret pleasure.

Television chef, podcast maker and cookbook author Jigal Krant gave me a jar of za’atar that he had picked with his own hands near Nazareth.

Food stylist Ingmar Niezen gave me two chocolate bars and a bag of cocoa beans in a coating of caramelized, slightly salted sugar. Together with her husband Kinito, she runs a most charming chocolate shop and factory in Zaandijk.

So that makes me very happy. Homemade food gifts say: I appreciate you enough to roll up my sleeves for you, get to work in the kitchen with pans and knives and graters and then do the dishes, just to let you enjoy the result . They also say: this is my taste, and I like you so much that I hope you share that taste with me, so here, taste it, and let me know if I rightly feel we have a connection. Giving someone a homemade food gift is actually a kind of declaration of love. Well, let me not get too lyrical, in any case it is a clear token of appreciation.

In my kitchen, somewhere at the bottom of a cupboard, there is a crate with all kinds of preserves that I eagerly distribute to people I love, but which I also sometimes take with me to appointments with people I don’t know yet. Homemade food gifts can also be a good icebreaker. Exchanged between strangers they say: we may not know each other yet, but I have enough confidence in the success of this meeting that I have already tried to assess your taste and would like to please you with this jar of homemade piccalilly/vegetable pickles/barbecue sauce /berry jam/plum chutney/kimchi, these hand-fried chocolates or freshly baked filled gingerbread.

Now that we are talking about homemade food gifts and cooking from cookbooks all month long, it is perfect that a delicious canning book has recently been published by Simone van Thull: the Canning and fermenting bible. It is a book from which, in all seriousness, I would like to try every one of the roughly two hundred recipes. But I started with Thulls rose harissa, a delightfully fragrant and spicy stuff that makes a perfect December gift for, well, whoever you want to show your appreciation.

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