After more than a year of public comings and goings viralized by themselves, Wanda Nara and Mauro Icardi They seem, finally, to have decided to divorce. The last chapter of the so-called “Wandagate”, however, does not speak of a normal separation, but rather contains some of the same traits that nurtured their relationship. Public crossings, denial of one of the parties, media speculation and the exhibition of intimacy as an essential factor to continue in the limelight.
However, behind this lies a bigger problem: the toxicity of couples. A novel concept but that applies to many of the sentimental relationships of celebrities. Far from idyllic relationships, celebrities often bring out their most harmful side. Mauro Icardi himself recognized it. While Nara From his Instagram he recognized the separation, the soccer player uploaded private chats with her to his networks and did not hesitate in his description of the situation: “When you give her single, or you say you are, but you are re toxic”, Posted the new striker of Galatasaray from Turkey.
The media now ex-partner is not the only one to be accused of being a toxic link. Cande Tinelli and the singer Coti They recently experienced an impasse in their relationship and the main reason that transpired is the difficult bond between the two. According to him, he would have been responsible for the momentary break. “He is unspeakable, toxic, jealous, everything he does annoys him, even plans with friends. The word was ‘infumable’”, explained the chimentera Yanina Latorre. Furthermore, during this separation, the second daughter of Marcelo Tinelli would have had a date with another participant in a toxic relationship: Ezekiel “The Pole” Cwirkaluk. Because, despite that departure for Palermo with Cande, the singer has had a relationship with Barby Silenzi for three years, which they themselves classify as toxic. “Each one is as they are, we are like that”, acknowledged the dancer herself.
Links. “A couple relationship becomes toxic when there is emotional dependency. This means that they depend on the other person to be able to live. They are relationships that are not healthy, ”explains psychologist Mauricio Strugo (@mauriciostrugo on Instagram). That excessive dependence takes shape in Icardi himself. Not only because he even delegated his professional career to her, who even became his representative, but also because now, with the separation completed, he prefers to deny the situation. At the same time that Nara published a statement clarifying that the couple was no longer continuing, Icardi implied that they had already chosen the name for their next child. “A toxic couple is not necessarily a violent bond. They are couples where the bond does not flow, where one of the two is exercising power over the other and where the way of being of each one is not respected, “said Strugo.
A fundamental aspect to understand the reason for this type of relationship lies in the fact that those involved are clouded and do not even recognize the warning signs of this toxicity. Thus, for example, although now Barby Silenzi cheerfully admits that her relationship with El Polaco is toxic, when in 2021 Silvina Luna said something similar, she was attacked. At that time, the former Big Brother criticized the singer after a failed and fleeting romance and called him toxic, to which Silenzi came out to reply that this had only happened with Luna. A year later, they are on the same path, at least discursively. “With him I learned everything I don’t want to. No, actually, he is very funny and charismatic”, Luna said a year ago and, without knowing it, hit the key. “People who have psychopathic characteristics, that is, who know how to handle the other, are very seductive and intelligent and thus generate dependency. The feeling is that without the other we cannot do anything”, summarizes Strugo.
These dependent relationships, then, become a snowball from which it is very difficult to escape, and those involved tend to deny the seriousness of the situation. Without going any further, Icardi continues to publish images with Wanda. And although, knowing the history of both, their reconciliation is possible, it makes this situation evident. Something similar happened with Cande Tinelli, who decided to cut off her relationship with Sorokin while he was traveling in Spain so that he could also leave the house they shared. “He is a denier, he did not understand the breakup,” they affirmed.
Drag. Wanda is not the only Nara who decided to separate. After months of rumours, Zaira also decided to end her relationship with Jakob Von Plessen. Although the bond had been wounded after he was the one who helped Icardi meet Eugenia “La China” Suárez in Paris, the trigger was another and much more harmful. Suspecting the minor Nara’s infidelity, Von Plessen had microphones placed in his house to monitor all of Zaira’s actions. Thus, it is the two Nara sisters who were part of relationships with toxic traits.
“It is necessary for people inserted in this type of bond to understand that being in a healthy relationship is being with a partner, that is, someone who is by our side. Not a ‘stick partner’ that arises from emotional need”, explains Strugo. But in the world of celebrities, warning signs are often ignored. So much so that a potential return between Wanda Nara and Icardi cannot be ruled out. And even if it happens, everything will continue as if the last days had not happened. A feedback from a clearly harmful link.
