TOSsiste and losing a parent is an experience that sooner or later it’s up to everyone. But in the songs we almost never talk about it. Doing it seems to me a gesture of courage. Because of this I was struck by the wave of annoyance at the limit of the hostility that overwhelmed Simone Cristicchi.
One thing is to criticize a songwhich is certain legitimate: art is made to be judged, it may be pleasure or not pleasure. Another account is to make it a political case. I don’t think Cristicchi is right, and if it is they are made of his. I liked his song a lot.
Entitled, When you are smallto the conclusion: “I will squeeze you so strong that you will not even be afraid of death”. Maybe it’s the only song by Sanremo who really fond of me. And in fact it is difficult today, at least for one of my generation, to be passionate about these tattooed trapper, to these criminal rappers, to these songs a little all the same, also because they are written by the same people.
Aldo Cazzullo (photo by Carlo Vangi Gilbert).
For example, Giorgia is better than the song that led to Sanremo. Gabbani’s is as always catchy, but in the past Francesco had done better. Lucio Corsi with I wanted to be a tough He has the effect that Lodo Guenzi and Dargen D’Amico had: the healthy turnaround in the glass, in fact he came second. Brunori Sas brought a beautiful text, on childhood and adolescence very short of our daughters.
Simone Cristicchi (Photo Getty Images).
But When you are small It’s another thing. I don’t have a sick mom from Alzheimer’s, but I have an elderly mother -more than that of Simone -, fragile, to whom a deep love binds me and also a sense of guilt: Because from Alba I left, unlike my brother, and therefore I spend a lot less time with her than when I would like and should.
However, I believe that in general the love we bring to parents causes everyone a sense of guilt a little to everyone; Because the love we return is always lower than what they have given us. Then, of course, the narcissist is pleased to be loved more than he loves. Sensitive people are sorry to love less than they love.
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