The Key to the Triangle of Influence for Entrepreneurs and Leaders
In the business world, the ability to influence and persuade is crucial to building effective relationships, motivating teams and closing deals. But how do you really influence through words? An essential method is to apply the “Triangle of Influence”, which is based on three fundamental pillars: naturalness, empathy and assertiveness. Each of these elements plays a key role in communication, and together they help entrepreneurs and leaders connect authentically, understandably and effectively with their audience.
Naturalness: Be Authentic as a Communicator
Being natural means communicating coherently between what you think and feel, being true to who you are and your style. Leaders who speak naturally are perceived as trustworthy, which fosters their credibility. In a business meeting, for example, a leader who presents his idea fluidly and without unnecessary embellishments connects more easily with his peers, bosses or potential clients. Your message is perceived as authentic and without hidden agendas, which facilitates a positive reception.
Naturalness also reduces tension in communication, allowing the message to flow and arrive more clearly. This means knowing the topic well so that you can speak spontaneously and answer questions without having to remember memorized scripts. Practice and knowledge will help you communicate in a relaxed and confident way.
Empathy: Understand the Audience
The second pillar of the triangle is key to connecting with the interlocutor or audience. Empathy involves putting yourself in the other person’s shoes, understanding their needs, desires, concerns and emotions. For leaders and entrepreneurs, this is vital, as each audience has its own expectations.
Let’s say a manager is presenting a change in the company’s strategy to his team. If you communicate this information without showing empathy, the team may perceive it as an abrupt and inconsiderate change. However, if the manager shows that he or she understands the team’s potential concerns and addresses those concerns beforehand, the message is more likely to be received positively. Empathy opens the door to constructive dialogue and strengthens the relationship with the audience.
Assertiveness: Transmit a Clear and Direct Message
This third pillar is essential to ensure that the message arrives clearly and unambiguously. Assertiveness is based on expressing oneself in a respectful and direct manner, but without detours or falling into an aggressive tone. For leaders, being assertive means communicating what they need to say in a firm way, making sure there are no misunderstandings.
For example, an entrepreneur who needs to make adjustments to the work team must clearly express the changes, the reasons behind them, and the benefits they will bring. This will help eliminate confusion and reduce the possibility of misunderstandings. It also allows the recipient to have a clear understanding of what is expected of them, without this being perceived as imposition or criticism.
The Importance of knowing how to combine the Three Factors
The true power of influence from the word is achieved when these three elements work in harmony. If a leader is natural, empathizes with his audience and is assertive in his message, his communication becomes really powerful. Take the case of a sales negotiation: if the salesperson expresses himself fluently, considering the opportunities for the client, and presents his proposals in a concrete and direct way, he is much more likely to close the deal. Naturalness inspires confidence, empathy creates connection, and assertiveness brings clarity.
For entrepreneurs, business owners and leaders, mastering the triangle of influence is an invaluable tool. Every interaction is an opportunity to influence and build relationships. Let us remember that effective communication is not only about transmitting information, but also about inspiring and leaving a positive mark on those who listen to us.
Ariel E. Goldvarg
Executive Coach & Speaker Trainer
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Buenos Aires, Argentina
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