THEA chain of feminicides that is upsetting our country deserves reflection. The criminal measures that the government has also taken recentlyby identifying a special crime and raising the penalties, they are a response to the effects of this phenomenon. But he cannot be a deterrent.
The state in which these killers are found, more and more often very young, is such that they manage to overcome fears and inhibitions, let alone the consequences of a law they don’t even know. The awareness of the effects of their action takes over only later, to things done. But it’s too late.
On the topic he writes a careful reader, Alessandra, who, speaking of Sara Campanellathe girl killed in Messina From a university partner, Note: «Sara’s waste (as emerged from some conversations recorded by the young woman and now made public, editor’s note) They were stopped, but still very polite. Personally – he continues – I understand a similar behavior: too many times in life I have experienced the displeasure of closed doors without explanations. So, I always hope that those who feel me, eventually stops it alone, without forcing me to be brutal. But now I wonder: How do you understand when you have to immediately run for cover and when instead a little calm indifference is sufficient?».
Antonella Baccaro (photo by Carlo Vangeri Gilbert).
One response to Alessandra, who is worth for all cases, does not exist. Meanwhile, however, it is interesting how the read read that Those who have suffered waste can end up solidarizing with the molester, losing lucidity about the level of its insistence. But just here, perhaps, the point is: Sara had not spoken in the family of her torturer. Something, however, knew their friends, perhaps too young to understand.
Torchlight procession in memory of Sara Campanella in Messina on April 3, 2025 (photo Ansa/Carmelo Imbesi).
At that time It would be good to provide these girls with a “toolbox” for the first sentimental relationships. To make them understand, for example, that stopping at their judgment, or that of peers, in the face of a deaf insistence on explicit waste, however polite, is not a good idea. Better to involve an adult, whether it is a parent or teacher. And if there is a risk that these exaggerate for protection instinct, patience. Better than repenting later.
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