Sara Sieppi tells about how the earlier relationship with an alcoholist affected her.
The relationship with the alcoholic left the traces of Sara Siepp for a long time. Inka Soveri
Someworker and entrepreneur Sara Sieppi33, remembers Sober -In the podcast time as he was dating an alcohol problem. Sieppi tells how he imagined he could change his then partner.
His life began to build around his partner. For example, this made Siep cancel his business trips because he was afraid the worst would happen if he was away from home.
Even Siep’s friends tried to get him out of the relationship.
– I noticed that I also started lying to them. I started telling us that we had all the better at home. That there is nothing to worry about, we can do it. It was all fake because the situation became worse, he says in the episode.
Sara Sieppi remembers her friends that she would have all her relationship. Inka Soveri
Eventually the man decided to end their relationship. Sieppi remembers having experienced a sense of failure at the time because he failed to change that person. Afterwards, such an idea feels crazy about it.
Sieppi noticed that the traumas caused by the relationship rose to the surface in the next relationship. In new relationships, for example, he began to wonder if he could trust his partner at all. He could not tell about his fears and uncertainties to his partners.
– I thought at the beginning that these are just about you [toisesta osapuolesta]. That “you came home late and did not respond to my messages, so you are crazy.” The other said if this could be due to my previous relationship. I said, “By no means, these are just about you,” Sieppi recalls.
It took a long time to understand that he was a problem itself. A safe and good relationship seemed to be scary after his traumatic experience. In the end, he realized that the relationship should be safe.
– Why have I ever been content with less? I went through such reels a lot, he says.
Sieppi talked about his experiences in relation to the first time Would you still have something? in his biography (Otava, 2024). According to Siepi, a male friend did, among other things, disappearing tricks, lost his belongings and urged him to understand his drinking.
Soon, Siep dawned that the whole relationship was a false when she found messages, pictures and videos on her husband’s phone. He realized that the man had told the personal matters himself to other women. Still, he stayed in the relationship.
According to Siep, the man tried to contact even after the divorce and arrange things. However, Sieppi says in the book that he never wants to see him again.
“For me, that person no longer existed,” he said in his book.
Sieppi is dating a footballer today Pyry Soir30, with.