Roope Salminen talks with Joonas Pesonen about sexuality in the Time Podcast and also openly tells about some of his own preferences.
Roope Salminen was working with Joonas Pesonen in a recent Time Advanced episode, including general perceptions of sex. Pete anikari
Presenter, actor and musician Roope Salminen Time-out-Podcast visits First date on the altar -also a sexual therapist familiar from the series Joonas Pesonen.
Particularly among heterosexuals, the general perceptions of sex, of which Roope Salminen has personal experience is aroused by the debate.
– For example, for a long time, I have had the idea that a man has to perform and perform and sex is a kind of circus show where a man is either good or bad. The woman is a passive party and receives, Salminen describes.
He states that this model is a terrible way to think about sex, but also very common. The situation has changed when Salminen’s relationship has been a safe environment to communicate and talk safely about their own needs. Salminen says that stress, for example, prevents her from enjoying sex.
– The dream would be to take my cell phones off and get all off and put it in the bedroom and announce that you are now being stroked and no one needs you for two hours. Then that sex is either or not, he describes.
– When such a thing began to be realized, I noticed that it leads to a completely different enjoyment. I am really excited, for example, when I’m lying in a dark room and shaking my neck than having several mums naked in front of me, “Do whatever you want.”
Pesonen and Salminen also discuss anal sex and again, for example, the perceptions of heterosexuals on the subject.
– I have one friend, a heterome who somebody asked if you ever had such a pin, Salminen begins to tell.
A friend encouraged Salm to try to try, when he was insured, that he could not know if he enjoyed something until he came.
– It took me someone for 1.5 years. Then I was looking for other tools, I saw one and thought I’d take it and test it a bit in the shower.
In the meantime, Salminen puts his wishes to journalists a little laughing.
– Now I wish a gentle hand from all the journalists who listen to this episode, but let’s say without going to the details that I think it would be really good for everyone to try it once. It may not be your thing, nothing. But if you haven’t tried it, how do you know? Salminen says.
Pesonen tells Salminen that he just heard a completely similar story from the heterome the day before the podcast recordings.