Eva Wahlström’s publication received a lot of criticism in the comment field.
Eva Wahlström currently coaches in her own gym in Porvoo. Jaakko Dahlbacka
Boxing coach With Eva Wahlström had a few retro values in mind that he would like to bring back into fashion. That’s how he started his post on Instagram.
Wahlström’s speech, which dealt with human relationships, emotions and trust, garnered an exceptionally large number of comments. More than 200 responses have been received in the comment field of Wahlström’s publication.
– Really cool and even rebellious in a time when everything is available too much and dopamine rushes take us like a liter, Wahlström described the values he supports before listing them.
He was the first to bring up “monogamy and trust”.
– People shouldn’t be disposable. I haven’t looked at the pages in 12 years, whether it was good or bad at home. Sometimes the other one is more annoying than anything else, both ways, but you can always trust that we are there for each other.
Wahlström thinks it’s cool to tolerate boredom sometimes and fight for things.
– Excitement and flirting happen with your spouse, friendship deepens and sex gets better. Emotional security is also a luxury, he continued.
He raised “healthy thick-skinnedness” as another value. By that he meant that you don’t have to be offended by everything.
– Differing opinions don’t have to automatically lead to conflict either, on the contrary, they could be an opportunity to learn something new.
The third point was “keeping promises”.
– In the past, it was said that “a word is a word” or that “let’s slap a hand on it” and that meant that when something is promised verbally, it is kept and it is as valid as a written contract. Nowadays, it seems that the agreed things change at the last minute, that promises are as empty and that loyalty without an ulterior motive does not exist at all.
In the photo of the publication, Wahlström was lying on the bed with his spouse Niklas Räsänen with.
After his boxing career, Wahlström has focused on coaching. He opened the P-Town Boxing Gym in Porvoo this year.