Jutta and Juha Larm believe they live together for the rest of their lives and praise their sex life. What is it like to find a partner for the rest of your life and to whom it is possible?
Jutta, 51, and Juha Larm46, it is not unclear that there are a couple – Larm. The common frequency is transmitted to the guest. The first time they met in the summer of 2016, a beautiful friendship started. It took a moment to become a great love story.
Wellbeing professional Jutta and current entrepreneur Juha immediately got along great. As a bypass, a by -product of work was a friendship.
– It was a beautiful time, Juha ponders.
Jutta and Juha Larm told Iltalehti about their great love story. Elle Laitila
Jutta had previously impressed how beautifully Juha spoke about love in an interview.
– How can a masculine man talk so insanely beautifully and sensitive to love? Jutta still admires.
It started to feel like it was more. Fast -paced Jutta was the first to grab it.
– Are we in a bunch or not? Jutta asked the former police by phone.
More thoughtful Juha needed 24 hours to consider. He had fears, especially for publicity, he pressed the brake. However, it was very simple because it was just so good to be with another. When the decision came, the couple progressed fast.
– The gift box had already been opened, says Juha.
Jutan and Juha’s friendship turned into a romantic relationship. Elle Laitila
“Endless treasure chest”
As friendship moved into a romantic relationship, new stuff came along: sexuality, bagging, hugs. Trust and security immediately existed. Aging does not worry, but Juha emphasizes maintaining sexual health.
– If your lifestyle is poor, sexual health will begin to fail. Typically, men start drinking and it takes you to the grave, Juha ponders.
The couple praises tantric sexuality and sincerely recommends it to others. Jutta is a sexual therapist himself, but the couple has twice visited a British private teacher to tailor tantric sexuality for them. The director left the couple to practice homework and returned to the guidance after the break.
– At least not worse, Jutta praises.
The guidance revolutionized both worlds and thoughts about sex and sexuality.
“If someone says sex is boring, then you would like to say that you have to investigate a little,” says Juha.
Tantricism is about a connection. Elle Laitila
Someone may think that tantricity means wonderful postures, but it is really a connection. It is about touching, affectionate exercises, creating a connection with a look – much more than traditional intercourse.
It’s wonderful about Juta if she is lying on her stomach and Juha hips her with a familiar feather spray.
– If I just get the ground in it and I am hopping, I can just relax and be. Through this we go to sexual energy. Or it is already present, Jutta describes.
Tantricism also means breaking the traditional roles of women and men. Jutta admires that women can only be a recipient.
– Endless treasure chest, the couple says in one voice.
The guidance on tantric sex revolutionized a couple of worlds and an idea of sexuality. Elle Laitila
“Light Balls of Love”
The romantic relationship also meant a common home, an engagement in 2017 and getting married in 2018.
– It’s the best day of my life, Juha recalls.
The common last name required a little exercise. The couple first thought about a whole new common surname.
– They were terrible, “the light balls of love,” those invented in their love heads, no sense, Juha Hek says and Jutta accompanies.
Larm is the girl name of Juha’s mother. They became Larm, and at the same time Gustafsberg and Rouvinen stayed in history. The couple also took the love tattoos, the owls, of which Juha’s arm owl has the key and Juta’s owl lock. The couple wants to underline that a lovely man does not make a man any less masculine. You have to praise your own love and cute is great.
The couple’s love tattoos: Juha’s Owl has a key and Juta’s owl lock. Elle Laitila
– Juha has been wonderful when he has dared to bring softness. However, he is very masculine, trained, masculine, handsome man, but then he has gentle values. It’s wonderful, Jutta admires.
Indeed, Juha encourages men to explore their own sensitivity and feelings, instead of thinking about what it looks outward.
Larm eventually felt like a common surname for the right choice. Elle Laitila
Love be ready
Friendship is a great foundation for a romantic relationship. There was no post-sudden or hormone storm. According to Juta, it took many years before the couple even argued at all.
– We have harmony, Juha confirms.
Jutta advises the singles that it is worthwhile to scan the circle of friends carefully.
However, you must be ready to find your own soul mate and great love.
– The interior work must be done, Jutta says and Juha nods.
It is not about age, but must be mentally ready. You have to be good with yourself, it opens the door to receive great love. In that space, they both encountered.
– I don’t need you anywhere, but I want to be with you, Juha sums up.
The prerequisite for great love is that the interior work has been done. Elle Laitila
Neither believes that such love was possible at a young age.
– We would surely have divorced. It would have been quite a salad, the couple says in one voice and laughs.
All the doctrines of life, calm, storms, joys, sorrows and things to go through were necessary to prepare for the rest of their life a partner. Jutta and Juha did not need one to love themselves intact, and they don’t have to try to change the other.
– We just know that we are always together. It’s so sure that feeling.
According to Juha, love does not fall from the outside, it is his own thing he can strengthen between the couple. An equal couple has shared all the difficult things and shame. They love each other – not despite them, but precisely because of them. No secrets are needed and others cannot get between the Larm. Juha thinks that even after death, they are in some way.
Jutta and Juha are partners for the rest of each other. Elle Laitila