What is the price you are paying for love?
Loving should not be synonymous with renouncing the essential. When we accept what contradicts our values, we are not choosing from love, but from fear or lack. María Stella, a link specialist and founder of MS Coaching, reflects on the importance of sustaining coherence in emotional decisions.
In the field of relationships, we usually associate love with delivery, patience and even sacrifice. However, there are limits that should not be crossed: the **Non -negotiable**.
Each person defines their own, but all share a characteristic: when transgressing them, a huge emotional cost appears because the deepest values are contradict. Accepting them is not born from conviction, but from the desire to sustain a link at any price. And what is built from that place is rarely supported in time.
Accepting what breaks us internally generates dissonance: love is confused with resignation, and peace is diluted in frustration. Hence the importance of “becoming aware from where our decisions are born”:
* Are they arise from faithful conviction and real love?
* Or do they originate in affective deficiencies and the fear of loneliness?
Authentic love does not demand perfection, but it does require minimal conditions: respect, coherence and reciprocity. As in any vital choice, acts have consequences. Giving up what contradicts our essence can bring momentary calm, but over time it is transformed into conflict and loss of emotional well -being.
María Stella, from her professional experience accompanying couples and through their work in MS Coaching, argues that affective decisions must be able to sustain themselves in time without wearing inner peace. True love is not measured by how much we are willing to sacrifice, but by the ability to build a link where no one has to stop being who it is.
Reflection:
Authentic love is not built on the renunciation of the essentials, but about the coherence of being able to be oneself within the bond. Giving up what contradicts our deepest values is not an act of love, it is a sacrifice, which sooner or earlier the bill will pass us.
In the end, the question is inevitable: what I accept is born from my conviction and conscious love, or from fear and/or lack?
Because in the end, loving does not mean getting lost, but finding yourself in company. And who really loves you would never ask you to negotiate your essence.
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