Where exactly it went wrong is not entirely clear. But after a year of marriage, the 73-year-old Trevor D. from Teteringen continued the stops. He threatened his ex, her sons and the buyers of their cafeteria in Prinsenbeek.
‘Whore, scammer, thief, tax evasion. I beat your teeth and your head to sauce ‘, were just a few of the insults via app, Facebook and e-mail that Trevor sent to his ex and her family and the buyers of the Friettent in 2022 and 2023, as it turned out on Wednesday in the court in Breda. The deepest low point was perhaps that he was happy that the baby was dead when the daughter -in -law of his ex had had a miscarriage.
In short, many death wishes, insults and accusations and the man also often visited his ex and also with her new friend. In the courtroom there was nothing on Wednesday that the born Englishman now thinks differently. To every question from the judges, steam came out of his ears again about everything that was done.
Poisonous relationship
His wife had a fries tent in Prinsenbeek for 28 years and he helped for 23 years. Somehow things went wrong and the relationship became very toxic. Not only the woman, for example, he called ‘spiritual cow’, had to suffer, but also her two sons. And also the buyers of the fries tent and the house above were not good, according to Trevor and were confronted with the insulting and threatening messages from Trevor.
The chairman of the court had difficulty getting answers from Trevor, because he was mainly concerned with what was done. The officer summarized it neatly: “I see your grief, but this is not the solution. Whatever someone does, what you have done is simply not allowed.”
Trevor is angry, sad and resentful and the most important requirement of the public prosecutor was perhaps the contact and location ban. Trevor is no longer allowed to come close to his ex and also not with her sons or the fries tent in Prinsenbeek, where new people are now in charge.
It is striking that Trevor D. has been convicted of stalking many times in the past fourteen years and was also regularly in jail. He does not want to cooperate in guidance through the probation service and that makes a community service or help very difficult, for example.
Requirement
Of the officer, the 73-year-old Trevor does not have to go into jail. She demanded 120 days in jail, of which 117 days conditional, which he has to sit out if he goes wrong again. He has already served the three days that Trevor should be in custody. In addition, the officer believes that Trevor should not come close to his victims or contact us for five years.
Whether the anger of Trevor has dropped, after all these years, it turned out not really during the session. Trevor did become emotional when he was asked if he can let go of his ex. “”I have to (ed. I have to), “the Englishman replied sobbing.” I loved my wife, but her family scattered sand in the motorcycle. She is the only woman I have ever loved. Never thought she could be such a Judas. “
In his last word, Trevor again fell into his old habit. Everyone had done it wrong, from his ex to the local police officer. And nobody had helped him, they all struck him together. If he said something, he would be worn. But the chairman thought it was enough and closed the hearing. The court must judge the facts and not about the pain of Trevor.
The decision in this case is on August 6.