For years, Divorce was a hostile territorydominated by endless judicial disputes, traumatic negotiations and lawyers willing to inflame the conflict. And although unfortunately it remains a common postcard (The Wanda Nara – Mauro Icardi case is being the best example), there are also change peaks. In a social climate that claims healthier links, a new advice model arose that seeks to transform separation into a planned and war -free process. The advisors are lawyers, many with a strong presence in networkswhich offer emotional containment, financial guide and legal strategies so that women can divorce as tranquility as possible.
A local pioneer
Helena Estrada not only created the concept of “Divorce Planner “ In Argentina: it gave name, structure and an empathic voice to a phenomenon that until now did not exist in an organized way. Lawyer and author of books like “Owner of your money “(the Athenaeum) and “The Heroína Journey “(Vergara)he has been working for the economic empowerment of women. “Throughout these years, I accompanied – informal – to many women during their divorce process. It is a critical moment in which they must make legal, economic, tax and emotional decisions simultaneously, in a state of great vulnerability,” he says. He understood that the problem was repeated over and over again and so your divorce planner (@tudivorceplanner), a tool to help them travel the process from the beginning, “offering them an action plan that works as a guide on the road to a reasonable and fair agreement.”
The feedback was immediate. “Especially from women who have already crossed the process. What they tell me is: ‘How good this would have come at the time!’
Clarify that it is not a legal service for a specific casebut a previous stage. It includes exercises and tasks for women to come to negotiation with many defined issues, with their own team and with a clear action plan. And believe so much in the product that gives 100%guarantee. “If it is not useful, I return what is paid. My goal is to really help them,” he promises.
From the legal to everyday
In this same line of bring the legal world closer to real lifesix years ago the lawyer Majo Carricaburu created the @TUDECHOSIMPLE account. “I saw that people reached the study full of uncertainty and fear. We needed a warmer space, where translate the legal to everyday,” he says. And what began as a channel to explain technical issues became a human round trip: “People feel identified, they write to me to tell me their stories. That feedback confirmed me that I was on the right path,” he says.
When talking about divorce, he immediately detected special avidity: “Many people consult looking for personal freedom, but first they want to order the emotional, review the times, the children. Even women who still did not decide to separate, but want to inform themselves. It seems to me a huge sign of courage and maturity,” he says. In addition, he warns that many feel guilt or fear of starting the process. “Knowing more and understanding your options does not force you to make an immediate decision, but it allows you to do it with less fear and more clarity,” he explains. Having information from the beginning helps avoid unnecessary conflictsreduce anxiety and allow to build more sustainable agreements, even in complex links. “Accompanying a divorce is not just writing an agreement, it is to accompany a transition of life,” he summarizes.
Following this path of turning the legal into a human and close language, Analía Raña Sá He opened his account @asesesorates always in the first week of confinement of 2020. Lawyer specialized in the law of families and university professor, he sought to provide clear information in the midst of chaos: “Many fathers and mothers did not know how to handle themselves with the communication regime with their children. There was great misinformation,” he says. The impact surprised her, even began to follow colleagues who valued a close dissemination space, without technicalities.
And although his account is not specifically divorce, every time he plays the theme he finds great echo. “It still generates a lot of uncertainty, fear and guilt, especially in women. There is a real need to know how to address it, what happens to children, with goods, with the emotional and with the patrimonial,” he describes. And he says that advancing early anguish and conflict, since it is a way to take care of and take care of links, especially if there are children. “There are battles that can be won in court but, poorly advised, they are lost in the familiar,” he warns. Therefore, the first thing that the specialist would tell a woman who thinks about separating is that she is not alone and that she has rights. “It is key to not hurry, but always advise,” he summarizes.
A change of look
“Divorce is not a defeat, it is a decision, ”says Yanina Persogliaof the Persoglia study already charge of the @Persogliaabogados account. “Today many women seek to cross the process with autonomy and without faults, but what I hear most are not always legal questions, but anguish: ‘Am I doing well?
From his expertise, he emphasizes that divorce implies reviewing where the decision arises: from anger or from a genuine desire for own change and care? This is fundamental, because what many times continues after the break is the exercise of shared parentality. “The clearer is that from the beginning, the better for all parties. And that is where the legal, the emotional and the practical are to help rewrite the history of each one with consciousness and care,” he synthesizes.
Thus, by the hand of certain specialists, divorce ceases to be just an end to become a much more human and careful process.
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