A younger woman can happen to you without being looking for it. For example, as a 43-year-old, a little too thick journalist at a party, I ran against my girlfriend ten years younger. With my great forest hair and immature behavior I seemed younger. Now we have three young children. She was shocked when I explained how old I was, I was shocked that she already had two children. I will get at home on my lazer for this piece about my experiences with younger women. And yes, I am a brother of the sympathetic presenter Beau van Erven Dorens.
The 20-year-old student
As a 35-year-old I got a relationship with a 20-year-old student, a nice slim girl with brown curls. I met her during a garden party and it was immediately on, thanks to large amounts of alcohol. She constantly cheated on me, also with my friends or just someone at a wedding party. That was entirely my fault, I was told when I discovered it. In the beginning she cheated on her friend with me. I regularly lay next to her in bed while she called that sufferd. Then she lied that she was staying with a friend.
Later I sometimes called her angry to hear where she was hanging out and then I got to hear the same thing. I still wonder who was ‘hairdresser123’, who sometimes called her deep into the night. Well, she was young and student, that is part of it, and I was already very satisfied with a part of her. My new job at De Telegraaf preceded anyway. And what kind of future did a couple had with our age difference? It was a dead end for both.
I then had an old Peugeot 205, where my father had mounted a new engine. Sometimes I brought her for a night out to her well -to -do parents in the north of the country, where she installed me in the guesthouse. She did not introduce me to her parents. Then I stood next to my Peugeot on one side of the hedge in the morning, while she said goodbye to her mother on the other. After a year I was allowed to keep eating with her parents, that was painful for everyone. I could stand on my head or put on a pointed hat, they found me a big dick, no matter how politely we were bored. As a parent you don’t want your handsome young daughter to make a relationship with an old, hopeless journalist. Imagine that she sticks to him: away from the nice son -in -law, the young family, life according to the booklet.
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I was still a satisfied smoker at the time, my student too, but her parents were not allowed to know. Her father stepped outside when I enjoyed a well -deserved cigarette. “You know that you will be impotent?” he said. My student and I quickly alternated fun and less fun moments. Then the food hung on the wall and the things of the other were on the street. It was not boring, that can also keep a couple together. Perhaps it was because a young woman always remains an object of admiration for an old man. The woman does not have to worry about a new wrinkle or a few pounds, because of the age difference she always remains tempting.
Golddiggers
It seems that young women sometimes look for a father figure. It couldn’t have been with me. I don’t take my responsibility, I can never be serious, I don’t give a woman what she needs, I often get such reproaches. That seems to be normal in men. “In a real man, a child is hidden, that wants to play,” wrote Nietzsche. After about three years my student finally chose the hare path and nowadays she seems to have a man and a child. I was never jealous. Even now I get a smile on my face when I consider what that guy probably had to endure.
As a reporter of the Society Cubit of De Telegraaf, I came across many successful men who had scored a much younger woman: the container millionaire, the cancer researcher, the real estate billionaire, the waste king, the political journalist with the bare skull, the former minister with his adjudant. Usually these women were not very handsome, caring and pleasant, the ideal company for a night out or a week in the Maldives.
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At Patserfeestjes you also saw the typical Trophy Wives with their long tanned legs on high heels, wobbling with their graceful ass. And also the proud multi -millionaire with a wrinkled brown face, a too large watch, the teeth bleached, the dilapidated body put into boyish clothing. Like my friend Michel Perridon, the famous multi -millionaire, once joked: “Ugly rich men don’t exist.” Someone else told me that Golddiggers often have the decency to fall in love with their rich husband.
On the internet you can see videos in which Rijkaards come to drive at hotels in Monaco. I like to look at that. Then you see a bald guy with a hanging belly and paint shoes from a Bentley steps, or a gout ex-playboy that comes out of his Ferrari with difficulty, and then a young girl who looks like an expensive escort, sometimes a cup bigger than her lender follows. I have always found that a bit sad, the woman as an accessory, although I walked alongside my student with the same pride. For the man it is proof of virility, even if everyone understands that you are not doing much in bed anymore. During Gala’s, I have advised several separate old millionaires to certainly not take a very young friend, speaking from experience. You don’t want to have to perform every night, you don’t want to lead the life of a twenties or even thirties. And always be confronted with your age.
Jealous
I previously only had friends of my own age. That is also the best. In fact, the woman can even be better, to rise immediately with the heart disease and pee complaints of her husband. I recently turned sixty. I feel excellent and I still have my hair, but life is nice. My great friend Steven has even been under a beautiful tombstone in Bloemendaal for almost two years, after a life full of drinks, sausage and cigarettes. Steven only fell on younger girls. At a garden party with him I met my student. Steven had a big belly, snoring through three doors, but in his head he remained a child who wants to play, living in his collection of soldiers and toys. An older woman also fits in with that.
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Once I was in Zandvoort on the beach with him and my current girlfriend – the mother of my three children, the ten -year younger, a teacher by profession. We got an ice cream from a beach bar, where a half -naked teenage girl served us. “That is a student of mine,” my girlfriend told later, after which Steven responded, “Why didn’t you introduce her to me?”
For a while Steven had a sweetheart of a friend, also a smoker and drinker, the same interests, the ideal couple, for each other, but of the same age. He wasn’t too bad in bed. “Then it was for God and Fatherland,” he said afterwards. She probably thought about that just like that. Steven often succeeded in fishing in jealous young girlfriends. He pampered them, served decent dinners in his little house, gave his undivided attention. But young millionaire women have a bag of money and a house with swimming pool as a dot on the horizon, Steven only had debts and his personality. Then a few decades of age difference are more difficult to bridge.
Old father
So now I am an old father with a younger woman. When I first took my children to my golf club, I got the question: “Is that your second place?” But you have to earn more money for that than a journalist does. My youngest, a sweet, smart girl, is eleven years old. Once a year I go with her classmates and their fathers at Daddy Camp, then we drink a lot of beer at a campfire while the children run around and shout around. There are fathers who are more than twenty years younger than me. My daughter also wants to have children quickly, so that I can still experience them. “Please don’t say, first earn a nice job and lots of money,” is my response.
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What does my girlfriend think of her old boyfriend? I say ‘white’, she says ‘white’, I say ‘Eskimo’, she says, “That way you can’t call it anymore.” How then, she doesn’t know exactly. We think the same about little. It is difficult to live with someone like me who grew up in the boundless seventies and eighties. Conversely, women are also difficult to understand beings, no matter how young or old they are. We go for a fool. She can always take a friend of her own age later, or a young person, with all the situations that it provides.
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