TOn this year Big Brotherbetween many scenes and many tearful stories, he gave us some inspiration for reflection. I have already confessed to watch this reality show alwaysconvinced that its inexhaustible authors can shape the story up to a certain point, and that the thousand cameras, aimed at 24 hours a day, end up frameing sooner or later a real dynamic.
This year the house really offered us many love stories. But the most interesting aspect lies in the distinctive figure of a couple of them: toxicity. There are Tommaso and Maria Vittoria, suffocated by their insecurities, to the point of not knowing how to be together without continuous scenes, but also unable to leave each other. “You make me feel wrong” is the accusation they exchange.
The dynamics in toxic relationships
And then there are them: the two thirty -year -olds navigated. Lorenzo, model and aspiring actor, and Shaila, dancer, already tissue a Strip the news. At first, the two pointed each on another competitor, and then choose. Except, staying in two for six months (the reality show can become boring for the viewer.
Antonella Baccaro (photo by Carlo Vangeri Gilbert).
So, apparently, Lorenzo, the least involved of the two, began to torment Shaila: The poor thing is now accused of being too careful, now of being too little and, always and in any case, of making a mistake, time and place.
“Big Brother 2024”, Shaila Gatta and Lorenzo Spolverato (Endemol Shine Italy)
The dynamics of guilty is so brazen that, the fact that she does not notice it, can be explained only with fiction or a profound falling in love. False or true that it is, This story throws a light on the tricks that can be implemented to be left, blaming the other.
Lorenzo does it perhaps to create expectations and earn visibility, and then returned to history, satisfying the many (too many) fans of the couple and confusing Shaila. The girl, who also has a beautiful ability of analysis, arranges, often ending up asking “her” man and herself what is wrong.
And this is therefore one of the most frequent dynamics in toxic stories. “What am I wrong?” Here is an alarm bell not to be overlooked When you fall in love, we seem to not understand anything anymore.
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