“That first spring sun or perhaps a little bit before that … it is the finest. If there is still that fine freshness in the air. And then a cheerful sun with that. I can really enjoy it. Or on winter sports, with such a clear air over such a fresh white suit. But then it should not be so hot that you are not going to get out of your ski out.
Dresses and skirts
But now we are already fast on our way to summer temperatures. There are people who count down the days until the mercury exceeds 30 degrees. It may be clear, I don’t belong to that. Terrible, because then suddenly I have to wear dresses and skirts. And that includes that I have to scrub, hair removal and go to the pedicure for a bit of presentable feet. But the worst thing is that I will sweat at the least or slightest movement. And that the inside of my thighs will then sand against each other and turn red.
I don’t know why it is, but I just have to go outside when the sun is shining and I feel the drops of sweat slide down my back, my slip into. And I have to keep my arms down, to conceal the wet spots under my arms. Not to mention the effect that all that excessive perspiration has on my carefully made up face and styled hairstyle. I was lost without waterproof makeup. When I have cycled a little bit I look like I just did a triathlon, with the swimming pool as the last part. The warmer the weather and more translaying the clothing, the more unattractive I feel.
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Libido
Believe me, I know every research and all literature on this subject. I don’t drink coffee and avoid eating spiced. Botox also seems to be able to paralyze your sweat glands, but it is difficult for me to have my whole body punctured? Occasionally drink alcohol and preferably a gin-tonic with a lot of ice, because life must of course remain a bit fun. And that is difficult enough for me in the summer. All that sweat hinders me enormously, both at work (I go there extra early to put myself in the toilet completely dry, freshen up and to dress), and in my social life.
It has even been a reason to divorce. In the summer I don’t feel like having sex at all. My libido drops below freezing and I just do not tolerate that someone is sitting on me when I am puffing on my bed like a stranded starfish. If my (now ex) man started to sit on me, I turned him away from me. He thought I shouldn’t appoint myself, but I just didn’t tolerate that sticky, sweat body and had forced myself long enough for his pleasure, I no longer wanted that.
My ex-husband claims that I have a fear of sweat or have a sweat phobia. Yes, that exists. It is the fear of excessive perspiration and/or sweat attacks. I personally don’t think I fear it. I just sweat a lot and often and find that mega irritant. But what kind of sense does it make to have that examined? I am who I am and just have to live with this. If I ever go dating again, I will at least do that in the winter … “
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This section is based on true stories. Names are fictitious.
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