Ruud de Wild is in shock after the nasty statements about his ex-lover Olcay Gulsen. He more or less apologizes on the radio. “I still have to say something about it.”
It is incredibly painful for Olcay Gulsen that her ex Ruud de Wild said in the celebrity crying show Het Were 2 Fantastic Days that he did not feel supported during his cancer treatment, because she allegedly said that she did not want a man with a stoma. For a while it looked like the radio maker would get a stoma.
Crazy talk
Olcay rarely responds to gossip, but does so now. “This specific topic has affected me so much in recent days that I have decided to tell something about it,” she says on Instagram.
“Since I never said that – and the opposite is true, I supported Ruud for years and I was there day and night for him during his illness – it is very painful to be called that hard woman who supposedly did not want a man with a stoma.”
Contact Ruud
Olcay has sounded the alarm to her ex. “I have also been in contact with Ruud to ask: ‘Why would you say something that I never said?’”
In response, Ruud made a statement on the radio. “I like that Ruud qualifies it and corrects it somewhat, but I just want – because I am so concerned about people who have to deal with an illness in their lives – that there is absolutely no doubt that I would never say that.”
Ostomy
It’s really nonsense, says Olcay. “Ruud had a stoma for a very short period and after that we were together for years and in all those years I really only supported him through this entire process until the end. I think it is very unfair that I now get all kinds of curses thrown at me.”
“I don’t think Ruud meant it the wrong way. I think he felt lonely and he was scared, and of course I was too, but we did it all together.”
What does Ruud say?
What did Ruud say on the radio? The following: “My comment can be interpreted as a literal quote from her. However, it was not and I did not mean to say it that way. I should have stated it more carefully. Loneliness and incomprehension played tricks on us.”
He continues: “In the extremely short dialogue in the program about my cancer experience, the context of a number of years full of ups and downs that my ex-girlfriend and I went through together was missing.”
No context
He should have provided that context, according to Ruud. “This may have created an incorrect image for some people. An image that does not do justice to the situation and not to my ex-girlfriend.”
“It was an emotionally and physically difficult period for me and as a partner she was certainly there for me. I am also grateful for that and I look back on a wonderful time, but much more importantly: a stoma is of course never welcome.”
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Olcay’s video:
