Harri Syrjänen shares his relationship tips in the podcast of Juuso Mäkilahte and Jukka Rossi.
Jukka Rossi and Juuso Mäkilähde co-host the Näpy podcast. Olli Horttana
PinchIn the new episode of the podcast, the podcast’s hosts Juuso Mäkilähde and Jukka Rossi discuss relationships together with chef Harri Syræs, known from television.
Mäkilähde states with a little laugh in the episode that there is no “feeling” in long relationships. He has been with the same partner for years and the family also includes two school-aged children.
– It has to be accepted. Often it leads to the end of a long relationship, that the feeling disappears. When the feeling disappears, the solution is that this relationship is finished and let’s move on to the next one, says Mäkilähde in the episode.
– It’s good to realize that the feeling of a relationship changes along the way, he continues.
Jukka Rossi says that he is not a man of long relationships. According to Ross, who is currently single, his longest relationship has lasted five years. Other relationships have lasted a couple of years. Syrjänen says that he has a solution to Ross’s problem. He admits that the solution is not necessarily suitable for everyone, but he himself considers it functional.
– The number one problem in couples is that we live in the same house. You see him all the time and it doesn’t become a horse’s hell, Syrjänen shakes in the episode.
Harri Syrjæsen and his female friend are calling and Pete Anikari
Syrjänen says that he manages to invest in his relationships in a completely different way when he doesn’t see his partner that often. Syrjänen has previously told in his own Ruokacast podcast that he is in a relationship with a woman younger than him.
The outlier’s philosophy is: when you only see your partner once a week, you want to make the day perfect.
– You have to get the good sides of a whole week’s relationship in one day. You don’t have time to start arguing, he insists.
Syrjänen says that he lives separately with his partner.
– For many years, I haven’t had the feeling that you drive by the house, go to the turnpike and wonder if you can afford to go crazy? Syrjänen says in the episode.
– You are excited every single time. I’ve said that I cook for my girlfriend every time because that’s one of the reasons she comes [paikalle]. If he didn’t get that good food, I doubt he wouldn’t come, Syrjänen continues with a laugh.
Mäkilähde and Rossi question how many women agree to see their partners just one day a week. Syrjänen knocks the arguments outright.
– I have been accused of forcing someone with me. The princess dream has a wedding, a detached house and other systems. But no, on the contrary. We are both very happy as hell! Syrjänen answers.
In the episode, Syrjänen also remembers a Christmas from years ago. The couple was supposed to spend three whole days together.
– My female friend said after two days: “Wasn’t this the shit right now”. He went home to whistle. I pretended I was sorry because I had felt a bit the same way, but I didn’t dare say. God, when he left, I thought I had found the Holy Grail, Syrjänen says in the episode.
Syrjänen emphasizes in the episode that the couple is very happy to see each other sometimes even more than one day a week. However, seeing each other once a week has been found to be so effective that there is a strong spark in the relationship and they also miss each other in a positive way.
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