C.t the arrival of a baby changes the mother’s body, routine, daily life, everything. Also for the new mothers star, which often appear perfect on social media immediately after giving birth. Nothing more false. To break the silence by telling and showing the truth about childbirth and postpartum are two new mothers, Francesca Barra and Clizia Incorvaia. The first, on February 2, gave birth to Athena, the fruit of love with Claudio Santamaria. The second she has just become the mother of Gabriele, the first child had by Paolo Ciavarro.
Post childbirth, Francesca Barra: “Sconvoltona like you”
“Anyway, I wanted to reassure the Italian mothers that I, qWhen I gave birth, I was as upset as most of you. We are strong, but we are human“. Thus begins the ironic but truthful Instagram post of Francesca Barra who shared a photo immediately after giving birth, visibly tested. “And even today, after 20 days, it’s not that different with 20 days of insomnia on her shouldersHe continues, thus responding to new mothers worried that they do not look at all like some models of women and mothers seen on social media.
Real life is made up of guts, dark circles and fatigue
As a journalist, Francesca tells the daily life of a new mother without filters. “Real life is made up of belly, broken backs, dark circles and fatigue” he wrote. Without condemning, however, the desire of those who want to improve and look fit. And concluding: «Let’s do a good thing: let’s allow ourselves – honestly – the freedom to be what we need without forgetting to be, at least in this circumstance, sisters, accomplices and empaths! And who needs to ask for help! Shameless”.
Clizia Incorvaia and the belly two days after giving birth
On the same wavelength Clizia Incorvaia who shared her belly on social media two days after the birth of her Gabriele. And that she dedicates words of encouragement to women who fearfully await the day of birth. “You can give birth with a smile»He writes, recounting having lived the experience in a wonderful way,« the most beautiful of journeys ever undertaken ».
Childbirth is not fear but joy
The new mother explains that she had an epidural and was able to give birth without an episiotomy. “Childbirth was no longer fear but strength and adrenaline” explains. Launching a message of courage to all new mothers: “Joyful of this body which is stronger than I thought“.
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