Bibi Breijman reacts extensively for the first time to the cheating of her beloved Waylon. After the leak of this news, she did not dare to go out on the street. “Afraid of getting on a juice channel.”
It was a huge shock for Bibi Breijman seven weeks ago: the juice channel Juice Channel announced the infidelity of her love partner Waylon. Yvonne Coldeweijer, then still friends with Bibi, decided not to keep silent any longer and to tell her story. She had known about his secret affairs since last year.
Waylon out of home
A huge media frenzy erupted: Waylon received support from types who have no qualms about cheating, such as Natacha Harlequin, but there was also anger. For example, Waylon was booed during his performance at Muziekfeest op het Plein and Patty Brard had an outburst of anger on national television.
How did Bibi initially react to the news herself? She tells today in a long reaction video: “My first reaction was just a fucking shock and: this can’t be, where was I? Who are you? huh? Just that. Then you kick someone out of the house and that doesn’t solve any of your questions, nor does your sadness.”
In need of help
Bibi soon took Waylon back. “I also noticed that my anger didn’t get me any further, because my breastfeeding stopped at some point after a few days. (…) I was still a bit of a patient anyway. I was in a wheelchair. I couldn’t really go outside yet, I could hardly do anything. So I was in need of help, because you have that in your maternity bed.”
The shame, if possible, was worse for Bibi than the cheating. “There was a lot of negativity from outside. That was perhaps the hardest part for me: the opinions, the hatred. Both parties were just talking for me: both by the media and by Willem, and I was really mad about that.”
Bibi in tears
Bibi breaks down when she talks about her fear of leaving home in the video. “I woke up one day and I was dressing Chester and he didn’t fit his suits anymore. I looked in the closet and then I saw all those packages untouched, unworn, he had grown everywhere. That was such confirmation to me of what had happened.”
Crying: “Then I really thought, wow, this whole month, all those weeks, has just drained me of negativity, other people’s opinions, and being hurt. It made me feel like a really bad mother, because I didn’t feel completely devoted to that little sweetheart, who really deserved it.”
Afraid of juice channels
Why didn’t Bibi go out with the little one? She was afraid of the juice channels. “I didn’t dare go outside. Everything makes you think: oh, they’re going to take a picture of me and send it to a juice channel. Then they will make up another gossip or post something ugly about me.”
Bibi wants to move on with her life and not get stuck in the past. “I chose this man myself. I know it’s a different one, it just is. I chose this man as the father of my children and I still stand by it. It is not for anyone to judge him but me, for he did this to me.”
Finally, she seems to give a sneer to Yvonne: “If you yourself are very hurt by men in life: I understand that, but this remains my situation.”
Bibi’s video
Bibi’s reaction video: