“A child shouldn’t read something like that.”

Collien Fernandes criticized her ex-husband Christian Ulmen on Instagram with drastic words: “What he confessed to me: He had developed a sexual fetish that he couldn’t stop. A degradation fetish. It makes him horny to humiliate me and present me in my professional environment in a way that he knew I would find terrible. That gives him a feeling of power. Power over me. He has had various fake profiles over the last ten years or so My name was created on social media. He contacted male users – strangers as well as men from my professional environment. He sent a story that he found erotic (more on this in my post from last Thursday).

And further: “It was important to him that everything seemed credible and that the material seemed private – as if I had secretly filmed myself having sex and recorded myself naked. He had an intensive online affair with around 30 men under my name, including telephone sex. He promised sexual meetings and canceled them at short notice. He wrote to far more than these 30 men – not everyone agreed to it.”

Collien Fernandes receives almost exclusively support on social media for her explicit portrayal of events from her perspective. Christian Ulmen himself has not yet commented on the allegations. He is presumed innocent.

Debate about the public and child protection

An influencer named Manuel Alexander Hoffmann, on the other hand, published a comment on her profile that also makes you think. He asks what the daughter of Collien Fernandes and Christian Ulmen might think of these statements: “I’m really on your side and I think it’s good what you’re doing, but I don’t think it’s right to put these cruel details on the Internet. The lawyers should take care of it. Everyone now knows what kind of person your ex-husband is, but please think about your child. A child shouldn’t read something like that.”

In this heated debate, this comment was promptly followed by a counterattack from another follower: “Now telling Collien not to name the depths of this man out loud has nothing – absolutely nothing – to do with child protection, but rather condemns the victim to silence. Collien is not only doing other women, but also her children a huge service. Her children are currently experiencing a mother who is courageously and strongly opposing what was done to her. They are experiencing a mother who is also committed to justice for them. They are experiencing that victims are not are condemned to silence.”

Appearance in Hamburg with a bulletproof vest

Collien Fernandes is now back in Germany. Yesterday she appeared there – wearing a bulletproof vest – at a Hamburg demonstration against violence against women and also met with politicians who, together with her, were calling for protective measures for women.