Jackie Farry was not only the nanny of Kurt Cobain’s only daughter and worked closely with Nirvana, she is also considered a real music veteran of the 1990s. Among other things, she was the tour manager for Elliott Smith and The Lemonheads.

Now Farry died at the age of 58 on January 12, 2025 as a result of lung disease.

Her death was confirmed by Farry’s long-time friend, manager and producer Janet Billig Rich. Farry battled cancer for over 20 years.

Popular in the New York music scene of the 1990s

The career of Jacquelyn Beth Farry, as her full name is, began in the 1980s when she worked as a receptionist at Homestead Records. The label is known for its wide-ranging indie repertoire, including artists such as Babe the Blue Ox, The Meatmen and Tsunami. Farry then moved to Atlantic Records in the late 1980s before moving to Epic Records in the early 1990s. The New York native worked in radio promotion for both labels, working primarily with metal and hard rock bands. Farry quickly became a confidant of many bands of the time and was a welcome guest in the New York music scene of the 1990s.

During Nirvana’s heyday, Farry worked closely with the band and also served as nanny to his daughter with Courtney Love, Frances Bean Cobain, until Kurt Cobain’s death in 1994. Farry also briefly hosted the short-lived MTV series Superock, which followed in the footsteps of the 1995 show Headbangers Ball.

In the late 1990s, Farry found herself as a tour manager for some notable artists, including Stereolab, Jon Spencer Blues Explosion and Quasi, in addition to those mentioned above.

“She was a beacon of light.”

“Jackie carried with her an incredible treasure trove of memories and songs from those formative years,” Janet Billig Rich told The Hollywood Reporter, “Jackie’s love of music was matched only by her sharp intellect, humor and magnetic personality. She was a beacon for friends and strangers alike, captivating people with her infectious energy. Jackie Farry’s legacy is one of love, laughter and an indomitable spirit. We will miss her greatly – her unforgettable stories, humor and influence on all who knew her will live on forever.”

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