Psychiatrist Esther van Fenema: ‘For a long time I thought I was difficult when I set my limits’

I often hear the term “toxic relationship.” This usually concerns narcissism, dominance and transgressive behavior. And yes, that exists and can be disruptive. But what also strikes me is what remains out of the picture and is at least as decisive for the dynamics: the ability, or inability, to set your own boundaries.

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