Olcay Gulsen denies that she warned Ruud de Wild during their relationship that she does not want a man with a stoma. “However, she says that something like that would never come out of her mouth,” says Patty Brard.
An intense moment in the celebrity crying show Het Weren 2 Fantastische Dagen: radio DJ Ruud de Wild claims that Olcay Gulsen did not give him the support he needed during his fight against cancer. There was some talk that he would have to get a stoma. “She said, ‘Yes, I don’t want a man with a stoma,’ which I understand.”
Counteract
Presenter Dyantha Brooks thinks it is unprecedented. “That’s quite intense. You don’t choose to be ill, of course,” she responds Show news.
Telegraaf reporter Jordi Versteegden: “I think it’s quite something that is said there.”
Dyantha: “This is tough, I think, also for Olcay, if you are accused of not fully supporting someone.”
Jordi: “You can’t push back at that moment, so that is difficult.”
A bit ugly
What does Patty Brard think? “I actually think it’s a bit ugly of Ruud, if I may be so bold, that you don’t say things in the presence of that person. So he can’t defend himself. You also don’t know in what context it was said. ‘Maybe I would rather not want a man with a stoma’, can of course also be said like that. Because no one wants that.”
Celebrity expert Bart Ettekoven: “I don’t think any man or woman will be happy if your partner gets that.”
Patty: “You don’t know in what atmosphere this was reported. We spoke to Olcay and she was really in shock when she heard this.”
For love
Dyantha then speaks to her colleague Bart. “I think it’s stupid to say: ‘I don’t think any partner is cheering.’ You just don’t welcome the fact that your partner gets sick. Not whether someone gets a stoma or not, right? You take that for granted, right?”
Bart: “Of course!”
Patty: “You don’t know in what context she said that.”
Dyantha: “No, absolutely. She cannot defend herself against that.”
Olcay denies
What does Olcay say? Patty: “She says that she would never have said it and that something like that would never come out of her mouth. I think she is smart enough that she would never say something like that out loud, to be honest.”
Jordi: “I saw Olcay who was there for him day and night. He ignores that in this broadcast and I think that’s a bit bad for her.”
Patty: “It’s bad because they probably broke up.”
Bart concludes: “It felt like she was supporting him very much in that disease process.”
