The 21-year-old Davey Verbeek from Den Bosch had a good time at the table at RTL Tonight on Sunday evening. He was there to further explain his conservative statements that he made in the television program First Dates. The Bosschenaar announced that he is still behind the things he said about the traditional division of roles between men and women. His ideas seem based on ‘Manfluencers’, such as Andrew Tate. And a growing group of young people is attracted to his conservative ideas, norms and values.

Just in short. In the First Dates program, Davey met 22-year-old Alanah and during their dinner he said with great certainty that she will never earn more than he, in whatever situation. The young woman didn’t know what she heard. When asked why she would never earn again, Davey replied: “Because I think you don’t have those ambitions. Just because you want to paint your nails, do your makeup. You just want to be a nice woman.” The excerpt was viewed millions of times last week and went viral.

In RTL Tonight, De Bosschenaar called Influencer Andrew Tate ‘certainly an example for me’. And he’s not the only one. Millions of people worldwide watch Tate’s videos, which leads a fast, luxurious life. The American-British former kick boxer and Influencer makes controversial statements about men and their dominant position in society on his videos on Tiktok and Instagram. “Men and women are not equal,” he argues. Many young men see him as a source of inspiration to become rich and successful.

“The woman is supposed to be submissive and to let herself be guided.”

Andrew Tate is one of the so -called Manosphere. That is A huge collection of websites, videos and streams in which a certain man’s image and a female image is outlined. Iris Andriessen, who is researching society pedagogy as a lecturer at Fontys Hogeschool in Tilburg, describes it ManosphereThinking images as follows: “A man takes the lead, is rational, powerful and willing to fight for himself and his family and his culture. He is doing well financially, is the head of the family and also takes on the leading position.”

“According to these ideas, the woman is exactly the opposite,” she continues. “She should be submissive and let herself be led. She must be following and caring. A woman is seen as emotional, and would also not be able to think and act rationally.”

“Men are stuck in a bubble in which they should not be caring.”

According to Andriessen, there is a danger in normalizing these traditional ideas about masculinity and femininity. “They promote inequality, and with that they exclude men and women in their own living.”

According to the researcher, men are stuck in a bubble in which they should not be caring or empathetic. “Taking care of your children does not come in the picture. And women are excluded from any form of power and influence. That is harmful to everyone, but certainly for women, who are already struggling with a minority position when it comes to power and payment. It is completely against the democratic principle of equality. We have been fighting for this for so long, and now it seems to be held the other side again.”

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There are various explanations for the conservative trend among young people. Many Gen Z-ers have difficulty finding the right study, a job or a house, and there are also several crises playing at the world level, “says Andriessen. “In these uncertain times, therefore, a kind of guidance is being sought,” says the lecturer. “It can also be a reaction to emancipation movements. People have the idea that their position is being threatened within a diverse society.”

“Their views can be extreme in nature.”

According to Andriessen, the manosphere A strategy that is not as innocent as many suspect. “Their views can be extreme in nature. Moreover, they have a clear vision about how they can use social media to spread their ideas.” Politics is also influenced in this way. “With them posts They know how to create a fuss and so they influence public opinion. “

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