I open a message on Instagram from one H. He immediately falls with the door: ,, I read that you have problems in the field of sex. Just meet me once. I am very good and can certainly learn to enjoy again. Let us know when. If your friend like that then. “I look at H.’s profile photo and chuckle. SureNaturally. It won’t be. I have to think of one memor He often passes on Instagram: ‘May you have the confidence of a mediocre white man’.
‘Duncan can also use a trauma therapy’
God
H. has gray -brown fluff hair around its bare skull. Small eyes stare from behind a glasses with dated frame in the camera. A big belly is bulging over his pants. He could easily have cut it off the photo. But that doesn’t come up in H.. H. is good as he is. And hey, that’s fine in itself. Normally I would not judge the appearance of a stranger. But now that H. rises as god Who will fuck me so fantastic that I spontaneously heal all the misery, I do. So I mutter out loud: What do you think yourself, you creep?
Because self -confidence is good. But this goes too far. It is GOOR to send such a message to a woman who could be your daughter – with serious, disease and medication caused by illness and medication.
Full inbox
By the way, it doesn’t surprise me. Not for a long time. A woman who comes out of the non-monogamy is seen as walking Glory Hole. My inbox has been full of messages from Kerels for years, who have read somewhere that I have an open relationship, and who wonder when I want to meet. Not either, so, but when. The delusion: if I do it with Jan and everyone, then they can also get over it.
Last week. Man with a face like a square: ,, What a pity Marith, that you are monogamous nowadays, that I just missed my chance. Do you want to know what I wanted to do to you? ” No, please not say. I am already nauseous – from a stomach flu that Noah has taken home.
‘Breasts, dicks and buttocks are reviewed, the spicy packs barely conceal’
Radical self -confidence
Where does that radical self -confidence come from? Why underestimates every woman I know and why do whole hordes of guys overestimate herself? In hip terms: how is it possible fucking delulu are? (And no, of course not all men are like that. Thank God. But they are always men.)
Does it have to do with the fact that many generations of boys were praised for their guts, their bravado, their courage? They were encouraged to explore limits, take risks, to beat themselves on the chest. Girls, on the other hand, received compliments for granted and helpful, for their neat behavior. Girls learned peeadjust, not to be ‘too much’. We learned to measure our value to what we look like, and whether we are ‘attractive enough’ – in the eyes of another. While men were brought in with: My place is where I demand it.
And exactly that, that is what we women can learn from. Have much more shit. Simply being happy with our body, our imperfections are not even when. But let’s agree not to overdo it. So no cross -border messages about our Magic Pussy’s Send to men who could have been our sons.
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